If not now…when?

One of my favourite proverbs to help me move forward is:

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The next best time is now.


It makes me realize how easy it is for us to get stuck in the past.

“I should’ve planted that tree (followed that dream!) 20 years ago. I can’t believe I wasted all that time! What was I thinking?”

So we end up beating ourselves up.

For all the time we wasted and for what “could’ve been.”

Instead of recognizing that we can’t change the past.

And there’s really no point in wishing we could.

andrik-langfield-0rTCXZM7Xfo-unsplashNo point in regretting all the things we could’ve/should’ve done, but didn’t.

Because when we do — when we focus on all the “if-only’s — we’re just wasting more of our precious time!

We’re looking back, instead of moving forward.

And hurting ourselves even more.

So it’s better for us to take the kinder, gentler approach.

The one where we recognize that we’re only human.

That we did the very best we could in the moment.

With the knowledge we had at the time.

The kinder, gentler approach is the one that moves us forward.

And helps us let go of wishing for things to be any different than they actually are.

There’s such power in that.

Because we all know you can’t change the past.

But what you can do is move forward from here.


From where you are right now.

In this very moment.

And the sooner you embrace that, the more empowered you’ll feel.

So make a commitment to yourself to go plant that tree — start that business, end that draining relationship, go back to school, write that book, or take whatever next step you’ve been dreaming of!
Do it NOW!
Because let’s face it…if not now, when?

Leave a Reply