Ever heard the song: “Do You Know Where You’re Going To?“ by Diana Ross?
It popped into my head as I was about to write this blog.
(So of course I had to listen to the lyrics.)
Wow, talk about synchronicity!
The song reminds me so much of the question I love to ask my coaching clients:
“Do you know where you wanna go?”
As in…
Where are you heading in life?
What’s your purpose, your next chapter, your deeper why?
Cuz knowing the answer helps you figure out whether you’re moving towards what really matters to you…
Or slowly drifting away from it.
And here’s the thing — there’s no right or wrong answer.
Because it’s all about YOU.
What brings you joy.
What feels good and true in your body, heart, and soul.
And that’s different for everyone.
That’s why I check in with myself often too.
To make sure I’m staying aligned with what I value most:
💙 Deep, meaningful connections with people I love
🌿 Time in nature and by the ocean
✈️ Travel, adventure, freedom
💃 And plenty of room for joy
Those are my joy markers — the things that help me feel like myself.
So I build them in. One small step at a time.
Because that’s how you create a life that feels truly good from the inside out.
Not by overhauling everything at once…
But by choosing to move toward the things that matter…
Slowly, gently, and intentionally.
So in the words of the fabulous Diana Ross…
Do you know where you’re going to?
Do you know what lights you up?
What your next step might be?
If not — or even if you’re just a little bit fuzzy — here’s one quick (and fun) way to get started…
Take my free 2-minute quiz:
You’ll discover your unique Joy Type — and how to bring more joy into your everyday life.
Are you:
🌊 The Wave Rider
💃 The Tide Dancer
🌙 The Stillwater Spirit
⚓ The Anchored Visionary
Each one has its own joy language — and practical ways to honour it.
Because when you know what fills your cup, you can start moving toward a life that feels more alive, more aligned…
And more like YOU.
Cuz isn’t that the whole point?
(I sure as heck think so!)
Kerry xo
P.S. Not sure where you’re headed next? You’re not alone. Take my free What Brings You Joy? quiz to find out your Joy Type — and get personalized insights to help you reconnect with what truly lights you up. Take the quiz now →